Husband on online dating websites
We've always talked about being sole mates and every year together it has felt that way. We have a 12 year old (his step son) and a 2 year old.At that time I also suggested us doing something to better our sex life including watching porn together, trying new things, whatever it takes to get us back on track because Come on - This is my sole mate right? this morning I wake up at 5am to find all the lights on in the house from last night.So I travel upstairs to find him sleeping on the couch with the computer open. There was about seven pages opened of this same sex dating site.
Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. A few times in the past I caught him on dating sights, find a bill or re-occurring charge on the credit card for a site.A couple asked him to meet and his reply was he wasn't ready for that!One of the emails had a very romance novelist feel to it, even where he described things he would do to this person!Well I have asked him if he had issues (I'm really starting to wonder about an addiction), he always says no. So it's not like when he met me I was a size 4 and now I'm ten times that (I'm still a 4)!I ask if what he's hoping to gain from them & he says nothing. Addiction is a phrase thrown around way too easily, in my opinion.